Because every baby develops at a different rate, there’s no predicting exactly when he’ll hold his own bottle. Some tots master the skill at 6 months, while others take 10 months or longer. That's because holding a bottle requires a wide range of skills: cognitive development, fine motor control, coordination, and strength in the core and upper body.
Some signs your baby may be ready to hold his own bottle: He can sit up by himself, which usually happens between 4 and 7 months, and he can grasp objects properly. He may also be up to the task if he reaches for his bottle during feedings.
Never leave the bottle propped in your little one’s mouth. She may overeat or choke on the steady stream of liquid. This practice can also lead to ear infections, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). That said, here are some ways you can help your child hold her own bottle:
Place your baby’s hands on the bottle while feeding her. Let her pull away if she wants, but try again after a few minutes. This will teach your child how to hold the bottle.
Don’t fill the bottle too much; your little one may not have the strength to hold it up. You can also practice with an empty bottle.
Encourage him play with toys while sitting down. He’ll probably bring the toys to his mouth, which develops the coordination and strength necessary for bottle feeding.
Give your baby regular tummy time to build core strength.
Once your baby starts holding his bottle, make sure to take the necessary safety precautions. Never leave your baby alone while feeding—especially in the crib. A bottle in bed may be soothing, but all that liquid pools in your little one's mouth once she's asleep, boosting the likelihood of tooth decay. Your little one can also choke if sipping from a bottle in her crib. Always monitor you child closely while he's eating, and listen to his feeding sounds. You'll probably be able to hear if something sounds wrong.
